Why Kuma Kuma should accept Tevez

1. He likes her for who she is. He is clear of what he wants in his partner because he has definitely met many kind of girls that attract guys in general, but yet he likes her. She is different. She is colourful, not just green, friendly (not like the average timid, personality-wise weak girls who wait for guys to approach them), happy-go-lucky, mysterious, tough and weak at the same time that makes him wanna care for her. He’s not a good listener but when she speaks, he wants to listen.

2. He thinks differently about what kind of looks is normal. His good friend who knows him well can prove to you that. She’s not fat. She’s not round. In fact, he has a whole different measurement unit. He thinks her roommate is too skinny like stick while she is just nice. He doesn’t mind about her cover-up dressing style. In his eyes, she’s pretty the way she looks.

3. They have a lot of conversation topics, similar way of thinking with many opinions in common like the way they judge people. Although they are from different fields, they have a connection which is rare and hard to find.

4. He’s confident of his lust control. He would feel cheap and hates himself if he ever takes advantage of girls for own sexual desire. He’s not a saint but he respects women enough to stop thinking of doing stupid things. He doesn’t like treating girls as mere sex object, but beleafs in sex as love.

5. One is left-brain centered while another is right-brain centered. They complete each other like batman and joker. Hahahahahahaha. They can live a 2 way relationship as both can help each other out during hard times. He feels that the tastes differences can be outweighed by their similar way of thinking on daily life issues as long as they respect each other’s interests.

6. Distance barrier between homes is reasonable.

7. Both have similar family backgrounds. They believe both sides of parents can get along well and have good impression on Kuma Kuma and Tevez. They went through similar things in life and have their own values which he feels will not clash.

8. He has a bright future with the course he’s studying. In long term, he’s likely to be able to be financially stable and supportive. Maybe even more than just stability.

9. Both are not attention desperado. They can stand on their own feet even if they don’t get much attention. There won’t be stickiness problems. They know they have their own daily agendas, that they have other things to worry about in their own lives too. As for what he said about not wanting to find a partner whom he meets every day as he may get bored, he admits it’s contradictory with what he’s doing now. He ate his own words. But he can’t do anything if the feelings are always there. Maybe, maybe because both sides are not as sticky like her roommate and partner, this principle would not be much of an issue.

10. He has a bit of introverted-ness as he doesn’t get too comfortable with the commitments of a too big circle of friends. He’s easily satisfied with his current batch of friends. Normally he keeps an emotional distance from not-so-close friends. He’s the kind of person who dislikes going out too much and he appreciates his time at home. So, he’s not likely to cheat on her. And he knows he’s not a good-looking person either, so when he finds a right one, he will really appreciate her.

11. They both don’t demand a lot from their partners. They are realistic. She doesn’t mind about what he doesn’t have. A typical girl would hope for a too-good-to-be-true Mr Right. Charisma, height, knowledgable, good-looking. He’s sick of girls posting friendster bulletins like - how many guys are willing to do that today, why girls cry, about women, 50 ways how to treat girlfriends, bla bla bla. Kuma Kuma is not at all like that. On the other hand, he doesn’t need girls to be too looks-conscious or to be prettier. In fact, he doesn’t like his partner baring too much skin as he doesn’t like other guys to be looking at his partner. He’s fine as long as she stays the way she is and she cares for him.

12. She may be more outspoken and have a stronger personality. But he’s not far below either. If both have tooo strong stand on their own principles, then fights are bound to happen often. He can guarantee her that he’s not that kind of person who quarrels. He prefers the soft, calm approach and to use reason to deal with problems. As for the outspoken part, he knows he’s a little too reserved and he will try to improve although he’ll never reach her outspoken level. Afterall, he has his own characteristic.

13. Both are students and don’t have a too big gap of mindset. They can go through the learning process of university life together. He cannot see what the long-term future after graduation holds. The only thing he knows is that he’s serious. He has had crushes before, but he has never try to get involved in relationships because he knows they’re not mature relationships and they’re bound to break. He felt that although it’s good experience, it’s pointless and not worth the time and effort. With the past crushes, he learns a bit about his immaturity and what kind of girls that he likes and won’t like. He has told himself that when he enters into a relationship, it will be a serious, long-term one. He won’t have the “Why so serious?” way of thinking.

14. He may still look young with his age. Only time and experience can bring that. He doesn’t want a one-way thing and he knows it’s not fair to ask one to wait, so she has the time to really think over it.

15. He has always been the kind of person who tries to be independent by himself. He doesn’t like asking for help. For example, he doesn’t like following his friend’s car to class even though his friend lives a stone throw’s away from his house. The thought of depending on his partner like a mother to make decisions for him is disgusting to him. It’s also an ego.

16. He’s not a very insecure person. Even when people laugh at him saying he’s little boy and baby Johnson, he laughs with them. Because he only cares what people close to him think about him, like her. In fact, they should not care about what others think of them.

17. He respects people’s privacy and space. From his time getting to know her, he trusts her to be a faithful partner. So, he won’t be a control freak.

18. He will try to improve himself as much as he can - language, physically, mentally, characteristically, and all-other-ly’s. He’s not promising anything but he can only assure her that he’s fully committed to the cause. He doesn’t want to make empty promises as he knows action speaks louder than words. So he’ll let actions do the talking. He hopes when they meet each other again, Kuma Kuma will be seeing a very much better Tevez. In a way, the month before their next meeting is a good thing.

19. He’s addicted to her face, her scent, her hair, her voice…. Her. He doesn’t think he can get bored when she’s such an addictive drug.

20. He thinks green is good for the eyes, he beleafs leafongism is magnifisern, he likes the leafont writing. He wishes that his girlfriend is hot like leaf, he wishes his girlfriend is leaf.